From a Reader
Hello,
I made a terrible mistake and I need your advice on how to fix this mess. Please hide my identity and please don’t judge me. I already know I messed up but I just need help urgently.
From a Reader
Hello,
I made a terrible mistake and I need your advice on how to fix this mess. Please hide my identity and please don’t judge me. I already know I messed up but I just need help urgently.
I am married but my life is really getting boring. That is not an excuse but I belong to some group on Facebook just to keep myself busy when I have nothing else to do. I get a lot of attention from men,the type I have never gotten from my husband and for some reason,I am enjoying the attention. To me,its just harmless cos I don’t know these people and they only know me online.
But I fell a victim of one of my online friends. As a rule,I don’t give out my nos but we got very friendly and after chatting for weeks,I finally gave him my whatsapp no. He started asking me for my nudes. I found it very exciting and I didn’t want to but I just got carried away. Its funny how the one I am married to hardly looks at me yet a compete stranger excites me.I took a picture of myself and unfortunately,instead of sending it to him,I sent it mistakenly to my male colleague in the office. Before I could do anything,he had seen it.I apologized for the picture and I thought that was it.
But he called me into his office the next day and asked me to sleep with him or he will tell my husband about the picture I sent to him. I thought he was joking but its been three days now and he says,I have until the end of the week to agree or he will tell my husband. I have offered him 200k but he says he can only take 1M. I always knew this guy never liked me,I dont know why he is so wicked to me.
I have practiced many times how to tell my husband but my heart fails me every time I try. If only the picture didn’t have have a message on it with the guy’s name,I would have lied to my hubby that the picture was meant for him but ended in the wrong hands. When I told the whatsapp guy what happened,he said I should deny the picture is me. That I should call my colleague’s bluff. I am scared,do you think that will work.
I am very sorry,I really am. I need help.
Worried woman,
Abuja
