1)Chase after a man who has made it clear to her that he’s not interested in her— A lady with self respect knows how to take a hint.if a man isn’t interested in her, she won’t waste her time chasing after him shamelessly unlike most girls today who throw themselves at men who clearly do not want them.
2)Cook, Clean, Wash and do other chores for a mere boyfriend— it’s okay to assist your boyfriend once in a while but a lady with self respect does not turn herself into a househelp for a boy who’s not ready to settle down.
3)Have Sex repeatedly with a guy who’s not ready to settle down—It’s not wise to keep having sex with a guy who hasn’t shown any interest in settling down with you. Most girls have ruined their lives by having multiple abortions for a guy who ended up dumping them. They cry their eyes out and lay curses on the boy but the truth is that if they respected themselves enough to close their legs until marriage, they wouldn’t be in such a mess.
4)Live with a man who hasn’t paid her bride-price— what most ladies do not know is that when a lady lives with a man she’s not married to, his neighbours may take note of it and start speaking badly of her and most importantly it makes the man unwilling to settle down with her because most men do not see the need to legally marry a woman who’s already living with them and behaving like a wife, that’s why most girls remain a girlfriend/fiancee/baby mama for many years. Never allow a man to get used to you before marriage, let him anticipate/look forward to spending his life with you.
5)Fight dirty over a man in public — Have you heard the way people speak about ladies who fight over men in public? That’s the most degrading thing a woman could ever do. A lady who fights over a man in public has no respect for herself and people around her will most likely lose respect for her when they find out about it. Never ever fight over a man, learn to act maturely by letting go and moving on. If another girl ‘steals’ your man, let her be. Do not fight with her, Karma will definitely fight for you.
