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A reader posted:
“Seriously, my babe has a male bestie, she spends time with him, I don’t understand such friendship becsuase I don’t keep female friends, I believe going too close to a female may end up in sex but my babe has a male bestie and they spend time together alone in her room, the most annoying thing is that she tells me about it.”
“Am I being paranoid or this situation is abnormal?”
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“Your girl is playing Home matches, right under your nose with your unconscious permission
My girl isn’t allowed to have a male friend sef talkless of “bestie”. Every other guy that relates with my girl will be acquaintances like schoolmate, churchmate, neighbor etc. They’ll greet and play when they see, and when they depart every connection/communication breaks apart.
What is the meaning of bestie? You should be your girl’s bestie. Iranu, abasha”
“If the ‘bestie’ doesn’t have a preek then it’s OK 
It’s POSSIBLE nothing is really going on between them, but it’s obvious you are not her confidant. Though if the relationship between you two haven’t been long, then it’s OK to watch and see if she will change.
OP, I don’t wish to be in your shoes right now”
“I have a friend like that whose bestie is a guy and they both live in the same room since 100l without their parents knowledge, now they are in 300l .Whenever her boyfriend wants to visit,the guy will pack his load and return when the boyfriend leaves.Both of them are having sex and whenever the girl quarrel with her bf,this guy will even be d one to settle it and he too dey chop her punna. Wetin concerns me,I no even advice her before she label me as a bad person.
To the op, I will frankly tell you that the guy is having sex with your babe but it’s a mutual agreement, they can’t help but do it.If u really love her,make sure u separate her from the guy. By telling you about him is just a cover up so u won’t suspect anything.Best of luck, bro.”
“I have a bestfriend, we served together in different local governments. I started to date a guy in his local government and I do go visit my boyfriend and my bestfriend when I know I need to see him, spend nights there and nothing happens(they both knew each other and the different levels of my relationship with them, they became friends after two months). So, I believe her.”
