When Will Men/Ladies Learn To Control This Thing (Photos)
Hello Mr. Newbeginning again…
If you are reading this…. Sit down and build yourself, because you deserve to be better than you are right now
I just want to relate this common factor that is causing so much problem today, mostly in relationships, but it is also affecting everyday living.. Many people especially ladies don’t know how to manage their emotions…
Yes, our emotions play a vital role in our living, happy, healthy, successful lives. All emotions, from love and joy to anger and fear are significant in understanding ourselves and others. They help us discover the wonders of this life as well as warn us when we are in danger. But this diversity of feelings is meant to compliment our lives and not determine them
When we are angry and frustrated by something in our life, we often take out our anger and frustration on someone else – usually our spouse, children or someone else with whom we share a close relationship. The problem is not our anger and frustration, as much as it is our lack of control.. Because as we concentrate on the situation that makes us angry and frustrated, it leads to an increase in these emotions and the lack of control causes us to release it like water from a tap.. either using words, or other actions..
An example of this is when during a heated or small argument a partner tells you “I have not seen anything you have done for me” when obviously you have stood by them through thick and thing..
Now lets talk about patience – or lack of it. Most people have a tendency to be very impatient. They wants things done, they want it done right. and they want it done right away, they don’t want to repeat it twice – and certainly not three times..
Lack of Control…
So when will ladies learn to control themselves.. when will they learn to manage their emotions before their emotions manage them
When will men learn to control their anger or frustration rather than letting it control them…