She Doesn’t Enjoy S3x Because of this… (I8+)
By: E. P. Stephen
I’m in deep confusion now and seem not to have any solution handy. I met this lady in my former place of work sometime in 2015. We became very close, but I couldn’t ask her out then because she was my colleague in the same office. Fortunately, I got a better job elsewhere and saw it as a great opportunity to ventilate my feelings to her.
I asked her out in August last year and since then we have been inseparable. She is a very wonderful, beautiful and honest young lady that has all it takes to make a good wife. We started discussing marriage in November. All these while I have not made any move to sleep with her. The farthest we went was kissing.
She came to my house yesterday to pass a night & I felt it was time to know our selves sexually. She initially refused but later yielded. We had the worst and probaly the shortest sex ever as she was sobbing all along. I tried to know why and she made me promise not to hate her or tell anybody if she tells me. She then said that she was raped in 2014 by 3 men who got her pregnant which she carried for 3 months b4 removing it through a painful process. That ever since then, she had never enjoyed sex and hates the thought of it. She also hates to be touched on her breast or to be fingered and so many other things I cannot say.
I consoled her as she slept under my arm but the taught of what she told me kept me awake and worried.
I just don’t know what to think of. I don’t know how to make her overcome the hunting experience. She even remembers the date. She doesnt seem to believe she would enjoy sex again and this is something I wouldn’t love to miss. This is not part of the things I planned to endure in my marriage and I don’t want to think of leaving her. We have gone so far and I don’t wish to add to her pain.
Is there any drug that she can take? Is there any medical process that corrects such? I just wish the idiotts that did this suffer very well.
Stephen writes from Lagos
