He Brought Home Another Girl After His Wife Traveled For Xmas (Pics)
By: marvelck N.
Must A Man Cheat On His wife?
It is worrisome to see a married man cheat on his wife when she is pregnant or when she traveled out. It is even more worrisome to see single ladies who make themselves available to a married man.
I just had a heated argument with a randy colleague of mine in his house over his infidelity to his wife.
The wife had traveled with their two children to her maternal village to spend the holidays and he invited me over today to spend today’s public holiday with him. I have always respected this colleague of mine because I believe as a married man, he has some family life experiences I can tap from. But No! I am mistaken. This is my first time of seeing him in acts of infidelity. This is the part of his life I never knew. In the office, he does not display any behavior that suggests he is promiscuous of which I respect him alot.
But today, when I drove to his house, I got the shock I could not absorb. I met a beautiful lady with a wonderful body shape. He introduced her to me as a friend and she greeted, I responded. Right inside me, I was wondering who she is because I was not expecting to see any lady in his house since I already know that the wife has travelled and will be coming back in January.
I kept my suspecion to myself while we gist about work, politics and the economy. When I’m about to go, of course he has to see me off. While inside my car, I asked him, who the lady is. Without mincing words, he told me she is his girlfriend, that anytime the wife travels, she always comes around to keep him company. I was marveled. I was shocked and he could see the surprise on my face. Infact I was speechless. I couldn’t imagine this of him. You have a beautiful well-behaved wife and yet you can do this in her absence? Infact I lost my composure and went into heated argument with him that nearly cost us our friendship if not that I later came to my senses and remembered my guiding life principle which is ”Always Mind your business”.
Actually, I just got home but I can’t get my mind off it. I am yet to understand why a married man will feel comfortable bringing in another lady to his matrimonial home without being condemned by his conscience and yet he is one those we see as very religious in the office. I am even more worried how a lady feels so free in the matrimonial home of her fellow lady without an iota of guilt no matter how much he gives you.
This is why people see Bankers as terrible Cheats even though not all of us indulge in such. If a single guy does that, no problem but I can’t understand a married man doing same, not even in a hotel but in your house, just because your wife travelled. I wonder how he will be able to look into my eyes tomorrow when we resume work. I know it is his business but I have my say and opinion on matters like this. Harmattan has not killed me and will not kill him if he maintains his fidelity for the few days the wife will not be around.
Things like this irritate the hell out of me.
