Dear young man,
If your elder brother is currently picking up your bills, ally with his wife
If you live with your elder brother, leave him alone and cultivate the friendship of his wife.
Maybe you’re an undergraduate, looking for a job or learning a skill, swallow your pride for a while.
Minister unto her.
Wash her car (s) first.
Convey that you have so much respect for her.
Take adequate care of her kids especially her first son.
You see, women are powerful.
Wars have been fought because of them.
Most campus fracas erupted because of women.
All forces combined, none influences a man than a woman.
When you’re friendly with your brother’s wife, your financial challenges are half solved.
I have seen a man who chased his mother away to please his wife.
So, who are you?
Granted that some men are assertive, but why not make matters easy for your brother on the home front?
It will internally please your brother that you’re close to his wife.
It will give him joy, but he won’t tell you.
Listen to me, when it matters most, she will vehemently speak in your favour.
You need her endorsement.
The bedroom is a shrine.
Take it from me, your brother is just there.
He does not run the show, but his wife does.
Paddy Chinkere Anyatonwu