Category Archives: Relationship

Real Madrid Star, Gareth Bale Calls Off Wedding With Childhood Sweetheart.

Footballer Gareth Bale has postponed his wedding to his childhood sweetheart blaming ‘family turmoil’. The Real Madrid star and fiancée Emma Rhys-Jones reportedly planned a star-studded ceremony in a historic castle in Tuscany, Italy, and wanted Beyonce as their wedding singer.

But the pair have put off their big day until next summer after a ‘roller coaster’ year of joy and heartbreak.

Former hairdresser Emma, 26, apparently hopes the extra time will give her chance to heal a rift with her ex-jailbird father Martin Rhys-Jones, 54.

Father-of-five Rhys-Jones served six years for a £2million international fraud ripping off investors worldwide.  Rhys-Jones pleaded guilty to one count of money laundering over the scam in which he and his associates sold worthless stocks at grossly inflated prices for three years.

Emma fell out further with her father after he moved in with a Russian florist half his age within weeks of being freed from jail in the US.

The couple uninvited him from their wedding along with other family members who were involved in a missing suitcase containing £750,000 of drug money.  Cars belonging to the grandparents and aunt of Emma were torched in 2016 while petrol was poured through another aunt’s home in north Wales.

It was understood to be part of a feud with a drugs gang after Emma’s cousin Epiphany Dring – a former glamour model – disappeared allegedly carrying a suitcase full of cash, plus drugs and watches believed to make the full contents worth around £1million.

Gareth Bale with wife, Emma and Emma’s cousin, Epiphany Dring (right)

During wedding planning Emma also received the horrible news that her sister’s partner Alexander Williams had been found dead.

Bale’s brother-in-law killed himself while being investigated by social services over his children, an inquest was told earlier this year.

Emma flew home from Spain to comfort former model Katie, 24, who had just given birth to her second child with Mr Williams.

Gareth and Emma, who met in school, planned home and away fixtures – a secret celebrity-ladened ceremony in Italy followed by a more homely affair for friends and relatives in the couple’s native Cardiff.

The couple’s first son Axel Charles was born in May, a baby brother for sisters Alba Violet and Nava Valentina.

Emma and the three children flew to the US to be with Gareth for his 29th birthday last week. He is in America on a pre-season tour with Real Madrid.

Prisoner To Divorce His Wife After She Was Seen Having Fun With Other Men. Photos

The  heartbroken wife of Britain’s most violent prisoner has hit back at his divorce demands by claiming that their bizarre marriage has driven her “to the brink.” Charles Bronson is divorcing his wife after she let a lad bury his head in her boobs.

Bronson, 65, went berserk when he saw our pictures of Paula Williamson, 37, on a wild night out in Tenerife.

The prisoner told a contact to let his wife know that their brief marriage was over. Paula was on a trip to Tenerife last week when she bumped into six lads on holiday.

She said she dared them to find out if her boobs were fake.

After the pictures were published, Paula said: “I have to own up to my mistake. “I have dented his pride and humiliated him. But I’ve lost everything now.”

However, she has since hit back, telling The Mirror:  “If anyone should be filing for divorce it’s me but I love him too much.

“Love and marriage are supposed to make you happy. We haven’t even been married a year and I have reached points where I have been so low I didn’t want to carry on.”

She added: “But I did carry on because I loved Charlie and I wanted to help him get his freedom back. But now I don’t even know whether that was what he wanted.

“I can never say I regretted marrying him because I still feel that love. I defended that man to the hilt. I told people he had changed – that he wasn’t the evil person everyone thinks he is. He has repaid me by breaking my heart.”

The former Corrie actress was reportedly told not to get fat by Bronson, who demanded she do 400 sit ups a day.

She said: “I have been used and controlled from behind bars as he has poked fun at my weight and told me I am an embarrassment.”

The wife of the notorious prisoner, who suffers from depression, said: “This relationship has driven me to the brink and I have been so low that I have even thought about taking my own life.

“No relationship should make you feel that way.”

The couple wed last November at high security HMP Wakefield, West Yorks.

The ceremony was only attended by four of their friends.

Her parents boycotted the marriage – but she insisted that she’d help her new husband secure freedom.

Source; The SunUK

See Identical Transgender Twin Boys Who Turns Gay (PHOTOS)

A man has revealed how watching his identical twin brother transition to become a woman gave him the strength to come out as gay.

Branden Miguel and Jada Tahiry, 27, originally from New Orleans, were born identical twin boys – Branden and Bryan – but after Bryan made the decision to transition, they are now brother and sister.

Branden said witnessing the positive reaction to his sibling’s transition gave him the courage to accept his own sexuality, and tell his family and friends he is gay.

Since making the decision to transition three years ago, Jada has had two surgeries, a breast augmentation and gluteoplasty – which sees fat taken from the stomach and inserted into the hips and buttocks.

She is currently considering whether to have gender reassignment surgery, and a procedure to reduce her Adam’s apple.

Identical twins  Branden Miguel and Jada Tahiry were born brothers but now since Jada's transition they are brother and sister

Identical twins Branden Miguel and Jada Tahiry were born brothers but now since Jada’s transition they are brother and sister

Branden (left) revealed that the positive reaction to Jada's transition (right, before as Bryan) meant he felt strong enough to come out as gay to his family and friends 

Branden (left) revealed that the positive reaction to Jada’s transition (right, before as Bryan) meant he felt strong enough to come out as gay to his family and friends 

The siblings, who grew up together in New Orleans, were identical until Jada went through her transition to become a woman

The siblings, who grew up together in New Orleans, were identical until Jada went through her transition to become a woman

Jada, who now lives in the Bronx in New York, said: ‘We are an hour and 27 minutes apart, but we are always going to be the same person.’

The pair have always had an incredibly close relationship, and prior to Jada’s transition, gained some notoriety through their online comedy videos, performing as a duet – ‘Your Favorite Twinz’.

Both now say their changes have been positive, with Branden talking openly about his sexuality for the first time in a recent interview.

Branden, who now lives in Brooklyn, explained how his sibling’s courage rubbed off on him, and gave him the strength to come out to his mother at age 23.

He said: ‘After the transition, I really saw how comfortable Jada was, so it made me want to be even more comfortable.’

‘Once I saw her doing it I was like “Oh, I can do it too.”‘

Branden admitted he was hesitant at first when Jada told him about her decision as he felt he would no longer have an identical twin

Branden admitted he was hesitant at first when Jada told him about her decision as he felt he would no longer have an identical twin

The duo gained some notoriety through their online comedy videos, performing as 'Your Favorite Twinz' before Jada's transition

The duo gained some notoriety through their online comedy videos, performing as ‘Your Favorite Twinz’ before Jada’s transition

Jada explained how supportive her mother was of her transition recalling her saying: 'You are the daughter I never had' 

Jada explained how supportive her mother was of her transition recalling her saying: ‘You are the daughter I never had’ 

Jada said she has wanted to transition from the age of 14. She finally made the decision to start living as a woman on March 9, 2015.

‘A lot of people weren’t a fan of it when I first started transitioning,’ Jada explained.

‘Even people that were in my own community, they were like “she is ugly, she is tall, she is dark”.

‘My mom, I remember she told me one day, “You are the daughter I never had”, and I think that just made me feel good inside.’

Even Branden himself was hesitant when he first learned his brother had chosen to transition.

‘I wasn’t supportive,’ said Branden. ‘When Jada transitioned I felt like I didn’t have an identical twin.

‘But the moment I started to see her more fully blossom and grow, then I was like, she’s happy, I’m happy.

‘We’re twins and if I don’t support it then other people will feel like that they don’t have to either.’

Jada had been very feminine since six years old, and wanted to transition from the age of 14 finally making the decision in 2015

Jada had been very feminine since six years old, and wanted to transition from the age of 14 finally making the decision in 2015

Since her transition Jada has had two surgeries, a breast augmentation and gluteoplasty, where fat is taken from the stomach and inserted into the hips and buttocks

Since her transition Jada has had two surgeries, a breast augmentation and gluteoplasty, where fat is taken from the stomach and inserted into the hips and buttocks

Jada, who now lives in The Bronx, New York, said: 'We are an hour and 27 minutes apart, but we are always going to be the same person'

Jada, who now lives in The Bronx, New York, said: ‘We are an hour and 27 minutes apart, but we are always going to be the same person’

The twins say that even after the transition, they still feel like the same person ‘living in different bodies’.

The twins’ cousin, Sabrina Cates, says, transition aside, the pair have remained incredibly close throughout their life thanks to their special connection.

‘Sometimes you can see twins, they will go their separate ways,’ she said. ‘They will be like, we are adults.

‘But they have kept that connection, from being very young and being close to each other.’

Asked whether he would consider transitioning, Branden said: ‘I wouldn’t consider it because that’s Jada’s thing. My thing is being me.’

Jada, who's birth name is Bryan, even says she lost a job because someone refused to call her by her chosen name of Jada

Jada, who’s birth name is Bryan, even says she lost a job because someone refused to call her by her chosen name of Jada

And although the transition has been a positive experience for Jada, she has had to face some challenges.

She says she had to try to change her name twice, after being denied for ‘not having a good reason’ the first time when she filed in Atlanta.

Jada, who’s birth name was Bryan, even says she lost a job because someone refused to call her by her chosen name.

In 2017, she eventually managed to get her name and gender marker changed after filing again in New York.

But Jada said she always believed in who she was, and has urged others to use that belief in themselves to give them the momentum they need when dealing with setbacks.

‘My message to any transgender person is to believe in who you are. We live in a world which is so much fakeness and hate. People need to see reality.’

Branden added: ‘Be yourself and still love yourself.’

Photos of Charly Boy’s Le$b!an Daughter & Female Lover in Bed Surface Online

Photos of Charly Boy’s Le$b!an Daughter & Female Lover in Bed Surfaces Online

Veteran media personality, Charly Boy’s daughter Dewy Oputa and her partner SJ shared these loved-up photos of themselves in bed.

Le$bi@n Couple Who Want To Make Babies Are Looking For $perm Donor On Twitter (Photos)

“What I Found In My Fiance’s Car, Am Shattered & Confused” (Pics)

by a reader:

“So i travelled this weekend to see my fiance , our wedding is in december. He stays in lagos while am based in abj. He suggested a sex free relationship which i agreed to cos am also a virgin. He picked me from the park and branched to withdraw some money. I was just looking round the car and saw something under his car seat. Looked like a betslip.

Chai!!! Charly Boy’s Daughter Finally Comes Out as a Lesb!an, Shows Off Her Cute Girlfriend (Photos)

Dewy Oputa the Daughter of Charly Boy who’s known for her Stand in LGBT, has finally showed us the face of her Girlfriend for the first time, According to US based dewy she was nervous when she wanted to share the photos, But She doesn’t care no more..

“N^de To A Married Father Of 2 In US: What A Lady I Want To Marry Did Will Shock You!”

Choi!!! Bride Rocks Massive Cleveage-Baring Wedding Gown, Then This Happened (Photo)

Couple With Two Girlfriends Open Up On Their Relationship, Reveal How All Four Have S@x With Each Other

A polyamorous quadruple, who share eight children together, insist their unconventional relationship is just as loving as any other. Elizabeth Lowe, 30, from Columbus, Ohio, was married to hubby James, 38, for five years before inviting Ashley Lowe, 22, and Audrie Lowe, 22, into their marriage.

The four of them share a king-sized bed and take turns having sex with each other, and surprisingly, their eight children call all three women ‘mum’.

Elizabeth says: “My two wives, husband and I are happier than ever. We don’t care what society thinks, because we love each other dearly.”

Elizabeth met James in their psychology class at Columbus State College in June 2008, and they quickly fell in love.

They married in June 2009, and, over the next five years, the couple had six children together.

But, despite their happy marriage, Elizabeth made a shocking confession to James in January 2014 – telling him she wanted to bring a woman into their relationship.

She says: “James wasn’t sure at first but, after two months, he grew to love the idea too.”

In March 2014, Elizabeth met Audrie, 22, from San Antonio, Texas, at her college cafeteria.

Bank worker Elizabeth says: “She was so lovely and pretty. I had an instant attraction to her.“The next day, I introduced her to James at the cafeteria. The three of us started hanging out at the park with our kids.

“Eventually I realised that I was in love with Audrie and, six months later, we confessed our feelings for each other. “In August 2014, Audrie and I became intimate with each other. James was happy for us.”

And six months later, Audrie and James, who are both artists, fell in love while on a road trip alone in Texas.

From that moment on, Audrie shared the couple’s bed and the trio became polyamorous.

But they only lasted for a month as the throuple met Ashley Lowe, 22, from San Antonio, Texas.

The quad soon labelled themselves as in a polyfidelity relationship – where all members are considered equal partners and there’s a mutual agreement to not allow any sexual activity with people outside of the group.

OMG!!! “We Slept With Snakes”, Ladies Narrated

Most girls who are in the habit of just going out with anyone could be cuddling snakes unawares.

Most girls who are in the habit of just going out with anyone could be cuddling snakes unawares.

Here are the stories of five ladies who went out with a total strangers unawares they were snakes which transformed into humans to initiate them.

She shared….

” There was this day we were just feeling hornets, and I needed to be bleeped and I told some of my friends if they wanted to go out with me and get some drinks and also get Bleep for money, it’s what we are into but not like the regular main showcase prostitute’s, ours are hidden from the ordinary eyes, but beneath us we know the truth, we know we use to sleep with men for the money.

This particular day was a near death experience, and as I type and write I don’t think I am Okey, I still believe I need to be deliver from whatever might have been transferred to us through our encounter with those demons. I am telling you, they are demons only wearing human look. When we met them at the lodge infact they are the best looking guys in the Griffin. I would do just anything to get closer to these guys, my God, when this particular one approach me, I was already in love even before he asked me if I’d follow him home, my answer was already yes yes yes, when we got home my lord, the decorations are out of this world, the settings on the apartment, let me leave that for another day.

The horror movie started when these guys changed to their original state to have fun with us, it seemed to be as if I was no longer in these world, I will tell you the truth we were practically initiated into the marine kingdom. I am looking for help because I can’t help myself again, my life is frustrated and I am aflame for the wrong reasons all the time. Committing myself to things ordinarily I wouldn’t dare wish. Please I really need help.

A lady shared with us, and we are warning you little girls to stop the madness of going out with strangers unawares. Please rescue yourself from the Evi in the world. So many people you see on the streets are not human but spirits.

“See What A Girl I Was Planning To Marry Did”

From a reader?

Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

CHAI!!! Married Woman & Boy Friend Paraded Uncl@d in Enugu After Being Caught Having $3x (Photos)

A married woman was allegedly caught having sex with her ex, who is also a married man, and they were stripped and humiliated in their community in Enugu.

Ibadan Woman Shocks Court, Reveals What Her Husband Does to His J0ystick Before $3x

An Ile-Tuntun Customary Court in Ibadan, on Tuesday, dissolved the 18-year-old marriage between one Okanlawan Akinbile and wife, Folake, over deception and ritual making.

“I Told My Girlfriend Not To Go To The Club But She Went Anyway- And Got Raped” What Happened Next Will Shock You! (Photo)

From a reader:

Thoughts on this?

P.S, this didn’t happen to me, I just saw it somewhere but imagine if you were in the guys shoes. Or for the females, what do you think about the guy’s actions?

This Marriage Is Divine’; Man Who Married 17-Year-Old Bride In Imo Reacts. Photos

Some days ago, it was reported that a 17-year-old girl, Blessing Udoye (who will turn 18 in September) got married to an older man, Okechuckwu Tochukwu Emmanuel without the knowledge and consent of the family in Imo State. According to reports, the wedding which was planned for almost six months – was hidden from the girl’s family member because that is the principle of her church (Fishers of Men Charismatic church).

Now the church has issued a press release with video evidences to support their claim as an interview was conducted with the girl’s mother, Mrs. Augustina Udoye and her relatives.

The new husband who claims he is 33-years-old in an interview said the marriage is a divine one and he married his lovely wife legally but the marriage has sparked outrage because of her small body.

Read below;

Our attention as a ministry has been drawn to an allegation by one Raphael Uduoye also known as De raph man, who alleged that Fishers of Men Charismatic Church Isiokpo branch in Imo state conducted the wedding of his younger sister without the consent of the family.

It was said that Blessing Uduoye was kidnapped and hypnotized against her will.

That the wedding took place without the presence and consent of the family members
The aforementioned was alleged to be for ritual purpose to get more members between the pastor and the said husband

OUR RESPONSE

We as a ministry is known as advocates for righteousness, holiness, sincerity and love for mankind. Well, it is very unfortunate that when it has to do with the body of Christ it always generates attention and interest from the public especially the negative. In order to get the details of what transpired, the church authority sent investigators undercover to unravel the mystery behind the allegation. To this extent, the outcome of this investigative outing are as follows:

• Blessing Uduoye was there to speak with us amidst smiles and laughter; according to her, she is 18 years old and that’s the information she presented to her pastor.

• The entire family members except Raphael Uduoye who was referred to as dissident were in the traditional marriage and church wedding. Pictorial confirmation to this scenario is available below this article.

OMG!!! Nigerian Man & Girlfriend Drown in River While Having Marathon $3x (Pics)

OMG!!! Nigerian Man & Girlfriend Drown in River While Having Marathon $3x (Pics)

A Couple who were having a rare happy moment has drowned when their car rolled down and fell inside the river, While they were busy ‘Banging’, According to News Breaker Mazimum who broke the news, The incident happened at Lamingo River, Jos…

OMENA-ELU! Igbo Man Holds Traditional Wedding With White Lover In Australia. Photos/Videos

A Nigerian man decided to do the  unusual by holding his traditional wedding beyond the shores of the country. Most Nigerians hold their court or church wedding abroad and come back home to do the traditional ceremony but for Leonard Dukes, he wanted to be different and also enjoy the moment with his lady not minding the foreign location of the event which is meant to take place in his hometown in Nigeria.

Leonard, an Igbo who lives in Melbourne, Victoria, Australia – got married to his White lover recently as her family and friends graced the colourful event.

The bride who rocked Ankara along with her Asoebi (mainly Whites), danced joyfully at the glamorous event.

Congratulations to the new couple.

Man Buys His Wife Range Rover Says She Used to Come to His House With Keke

A Nigerian man James Obie in a way to appreciate his wife, and to assure her that his love is forever, just bought her a Brand New Range Rover, the excited Husband shared the photos on his page said she stood by him when he had nothing, ran to an fro with Keke all to see him, So its only fair that he buys her the ride..
Congrats to the Lady see his post below!

Man Beats His Wife Black and Blue Over Missing N500 in Lagos (Photos)

Man Beats His Wife Black and Blue Over Missing N500 in Lagos (Photos)

A hairdresser, Motunrayo Eweje, has accused her husband, Ayoyemi, of battering her over a missing N500 note he kept in a carton on the refrigerator, last Tuesday, in their Baiyewu, Ikorodu residence. .

According to TheNation she was making a customer’s hair on June 27, when Eweje, a generator repairer, accused her of taking the money. He ordered her to go and look for it, so, she returned to her customer.

When she finished, he refused to let her into the house. She revealed that the next day, Eweje ordered her to pack out of their home, following which she left with her two children because was already tired of the marriage.

According to her, last Tuesday (July 3), Eweje trailed her to her friend, Blessing Jacob’s place and beat her up. Motunrayo said:
“I am tired of this marriage and I want it to end. .

It has been full of quarrels, beatings and arguments. I am not in love again. My husband does not take care of me; he only pays the children’s school fess and house rent. .
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I am the one that takes care of my children both in feeding and clothing.” But Eweje, who admitted beating his wife, told The Nation that it was a mistake. .

Eweje said:
“I know that I made a mistake to have beaten her. I am crying now and I am saying that this will not happen again. My wife was not like this before we moved to Ikorodu.

It is because she is now rolling with people that are bigger than her and they are not advising her to do the right thing; I know she has a man friend. She is lying that I have not been taking care of the family.

Did you not see how big she is? And she says I am not feeding her. Which work is she doing that she is using to take care of the family? I still love my wife and I want my marriage back.

I have beaten her before, but since last year I have not beaten her. I beat her that night because I went to her friend’s house to get my children back home, but she was dragging the children in my hand.

I just gave her a blow and it touched her face.” Eweje, who was arrested last Wednesday, added that he was released on Friday on bail after paying N30,000.

The Jacobs Are Going South! Olu Jacobs & Joke Silva’s Son Set To Wed. Checkout Fabulous Pre-Wedding Photos

wow!!! Nollywood Popular actor Olu Jacob’s son Olusoji Jacobs set to wed his beautiful fiancee, Wife of Olu Jacobs Joke Silva release their beautiful pre wedding photos on her IG page.

Female Lawmaker Speaks Out After Man Was Jailed For Professing Love For Her

The female lawmaker who caused the imprisonment of a 25-year-olad man who was obsessed with her and professed his “undying love” for her while stalking her, has been forced to speak out after much criticisms (see HERE).

The Ugandan student identified as Brian Isiko, was convicted and sentenced to 2 years in prison on his own plea of guilty to counts of cyber harassment and offensive communication after professing his “love” for Kabalore Woman Member of Parliament, Ms Sylvia Rwabwoogo.

He confessed that the calls and text messages professing obsessed love to the MP he had never physically seen, were from him.

According to reports, the female politician who is single cried as she told court that she started receiving calls admitting love from a stranger.

She took to her social media page earlier today to share her side of the story. Read below;

Dear Friends, Colleagues and Supporters

Before you go on judging me and scolding me, I want to let you know that there’s more than meets the eye in all this saga that has turned out to be a national issue. What most of you regard as mere love messages should know that this was not just love messages. This boy was being used by some selfish individuals in a mission to lure me with love and kill me.

I endured fear and suffering due to those who sent Brian to trap and kill me. Nebanda was killed in such a way. I didn’t have to wait to be killed, as a precautionary measure I had to seek the solace of authorities to protect myself, my family and constituents from horror.

If it was for love, I have had many even those younger than Brian and much older, but this was none like other with intentions to harm me.

Let’s see how the authorities handle the situation. I call upon fellow Ugandans to be vigilant at all times, we cannot go on dying like animals. Vigilance is key.For God and my Country!

Ms Kamasanyu handed Isiko two years in prison on the count of cyber harassment and nine months for offensive communication, which sentences will run concurrently.

Deaf And Dumb Couple Wed In Akwa Ibom(Photos)

Nigerian Minister Who Has Not Dated All His Life Finally Set To Wed (Photos)

Wife Cuts Off Husband’s J0ystick, Throws It Out Of Window For Cheating (Photos Included)

A Jealous wife has been arrested after hacking off her husband’s joystick today– with a 12-inch-long carving knife.

Karuna Sanusan, 24, carried out the bloody attack on 40-year-old Siripan after discovering he was having an affair, she told police.

“I Caught My Husband $uck!ng My Niece’s B00bs, Sleeping With Our Maid”

An Igando Customary Court in Lagos on Wednesday dissolved the 10-year marriage between Mrs Florence Anyasi and her husband, Stanley Anyasi over infidelity.

The 36-year-old trader told the court that apart from numerous cases of his following women around, her husband used to sneak into their maid’s room to sleep with her.

Pretty Lady Cries Out As Ex-Boyfriend Threatens To Release Her UNCLADS Photos For Dumping Him

A fresh Drama is currently building up Twitter, This morning. A Lady named Annie has cried out to her page, calling out her ex boyfriend Ifeanyi Amadi who has threatened to Release Her Nude Because she broke up With him…

Now, According to her story, She broke up with him Yesterday morning cos she saw the relationship was leading no where..

Butin return he refused accepting the break up, rather he threatened to release her nude photos, She said he actually released some on Whatsapp, And told her his next bus stop will be twitter, Thats why she’s now crying out..

Read her post below!

“My Wife Sends Her Nu*de Picture To Her Zenith Bank Boss” (Photos)

Mr.Arhamerene cries out that his cheating wife sent her nude picture to her boss who is a manager of Zenith Bank.

He narrates the ordeal of his broken marriage through social media after accusing his wife (now his ex) of having an affair with a colleague who is the operational manager of Zenith Bank at the Delta state university, Abraka. The heartbroken man shared his story with journalist Sapele Oghenek with the permission to post online.

Igbo Man Takes His Yoruba Girlfriend To The Middle of River, then THIS Happened (Photos)

Must have been a very romantic moment for her! David Chinedu is off the market with the Love of his life Oluwakemi, According to him, He organized a surprise Boat ride for her, and she never knew it was the day for the ring..

“My V!rgin Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me”

From a Reader:

No bashings. 
No religious sentiments. 
Mature Comments Please.

I have a girlfriend who I love so much. It’s been more than a year now… We’ve had the ups and downs which makes every relationship peculiar in it’s own way. Everything I do, is been done out of love. Not because I want to have sex with her. I have shown her, I am not with her because of $3x. If it were that, I’d have left… And then she can say all men are the same. For her, I have done what I haven’t done for my mom or sister, not even a third(I’m sorta ashamed even adding this, but it is what it is). 

From a Reader:

No bashings.
No religious sentiments.
Mature Comments Please.

I have a girlfriend who I love so much. It’s been more than a year now… We’ve had the ups and downs which makes every relationship peculiar in it’s own way. Everything I do, is been done out of love. Not because I want to have sex with her. I have shown her, I am not with her because of $3x. If it were that, I’d have left… And then she can say all men are the same. For her, I have done what I haven’t done for my mom or sister, not even a third(I’m sorta ashamed even adding this, but it is what it is).

The issue is this, I want to make sure she is totally mine. But whenever I mention $3x, she’d tell me not to think about that, that it isn’t within her capacity, blah blah blah. Yet, she claims to love me… Frustratingly annoying. I find it difficult to cheat on her; my conscience is overly active I guess.

At other times, my sexual energy towards her just wanes… Because it’s more or less futile. I just force myself to kiss and make out with her to keep the relationship going.

On the flip side, I have a friend, a lady who wants me to date her, extremely rich girl… Even tells me to accompany her to the UK, France sometimes, I just wave it off. She calls me to tell me she loves me(which I laugh off), takes initiative, gets me things I don’t even need and a lot more. I am not the materialistic freak. I can’t double date and I can’t get down with some other person and act as though all is well. I just don’t tick that way.

We make out and all of that, but at the mention of $3x, she becomes moody, telling me it’s not honorable.

What’s your proffered solution?