If you’ve been with your girlfriend for a long time — or not so long — and are ready to take your relationship to a more intimate level, you must be wondering if she’s feeling the same way. Though you may think it’s easier to just ask her what she wants, saying, “Wanna have sex?” may not give you the reaction you expected. Instead, if you really want to know if your girlfriend wants to have sex with you,you should pay attention towhat she says and how she acts to get the big picture. If you want to know how to tell if your lady is ready to get intimate, just follow these steps.Method One of Three:Notice Her Actions
1. See if she’s been getting more physical.If your girlfriend can’t keepher hands off of you and is always touching you, has her arms around you,or wants you to hold her hand, put your arm around her, or even drape her across your lap, then she may be ready for more. If her actions have been getting more sexual — like if she’s touching yourmanhood through your pants, or placing your hands on her breasts — then she may be ready for something more.*.If she’s more physical around you, then this means she’s probably more comfortable around you. And she’ll only have sex with you if she feels comfortablewith you.*.See how she dances with you. Does she get closer to your body than ever? She may be trying to tell you something.
2. See how things have progressed in the bedroom.It’s unlikely that your girlfriend wantsto have sex with you if you’ve never even Frenchkissed.
But if you’ve beenmaking out for a while and have moved further than that, then it’s more likely that she’s ready to have sex.
If you’ve touched her breasts, and if you’ve touched each others private parts or even received MouthAction from her, then it’s more likely — though not guaranteed — that she may be ready to move further with you.*.Just because a girl gives you MouthAction doesnotmean that she’s ready to have sex with you.
Some girls give MouthAction way before they’re ready to have sex, while others aren’t comfortable giving MouthAction until after sex — or they don’t give it at all. Every girl is different.*.If you kiss for hours andyour girl doesn’t do anything more, she mayeither be waiting for you to make the next move, or she may reallyjust not be ready to have sex.
If she pushes you away every time you try to touch her breasts, take off her shirt, or touch her below the belt, then sheis definitely not ready.
3. See if she wants a lot of alone time. If suddenly, your girlfriend’s friends are nowhere to be found, and she wants to spend alot of time alone with you, in one of your homes or bedrooms, then it’s likely that she wants to get intimate — to some degree. If she wasn’t ready for sex, then she’d be more likelyto avoid any uncomfortable situations where you’re completely alone and wanting more than she can give you.
