Former Big Brother Naija housemate Tochi has sparked conversations on social media after advising men to cultivate non-sexual friendships with women, arguing that such relationships can offer valuable support without becoming romantic.
The reality TV star shared his thoughts via a series of posts on his Instagram Story, where he encouraged men to appreciate the benefits of platonic relationships with women.
According to Tochi, maintaining healthy friendships with women can positively impact a man’s life, while introducing s*x into such relationships often creates complications.
Tochi shares relationship advice
In one of the posts, Tochi wrote, “As a man, learn to have non-sexual friendships with women. You’ll be surprised how much value and support they add to your life. Most times, s*x spoils good friendships.”
He followed it with another message directed at married men, stating, “He that find a wife, finds a good thing and should leave other women alone.”
His remarks quickly attracted attention, with many users debating his perspective on relationships and marriage.
Mixed reactions trail Tochi’s comments
The posts have since generated mixed reactions online. While some social media users agreed that platonic friendships between men and women can be beneficial, others argued that such relationships can be difficult to maintain because of emotional or romantic attraction.
Others also praised Tochi’s message encouraging married men to remain committed to their spouses, saying it promotes loyalty and respect in relationships. The discussion continues to trend across social media platforms.
