He always picked my calls. Always responded.
Then one day, I had an emergency. An urgent need.
I called him and said, “Sir, please I need N100,000.”
He said, “Okay.”
He told someone to send it to me.
Then he blocked me.
Now, that’s not a true story, but it perfectly explains how people lose life-changing relationships.
At this point, you should stop reading if you don’t want the truth that hurts.
The potential investor is not the same man you ask for urgent 2k.
The one meant to teach you how to build your own farm is not the one you call to “buy you breakfast”
If you confuse the roles,
You lose both the man and the opportunity.
Some people are doors.
Some are ladders.
Some are mentors.
Some are investors.
And some are not meant to fix your hunger.
Rich and powerful people don’t keep needy friends.
They keep useful ones.
If they sense you are drowning in basic survival, they will toss a life jacket and sail off without you.
Why?
Because in their mind, “you don’t belong here yet.”
They will place you back where the crowd is.
No beef. Just instincts. Standard.
An eagle doesn’t keep friendships with a fowl.
Not because the fowl is bad but because they fly at different altitudes.
If you want to keep high-value people, stop trying to use them for survival. Survive secretly and build with them openly. They are not there to help you survive, and out there, no one gives a flying f**k how you feel.
That’s how to maintain access.
You must not become an unnecessary burden if you want to keep the relationship.
This truths hurt, it sounds harsh and wicked, but this post is not about what’s morally right or wrong. I’m simply sharing a CODE.
~KAA
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