Veteran Nollywood actor and filmmaker, Kanayo O. Kanayo, has sparked conversations online after issuing a heartfelt yet humorous ultimatum to his daughter, Valerie, as she celebrated her 25th birthday.
In a post shared on his official social media handle, the legendary actor, known for his roles in classic Nigerian movies, used the occasion to offer words of wisdom, self-reflection, and life direction to his daughter, also known by her native name “Uloaku” (meaning “House of Wealth”).
Kanayo encouraged Valerie to take the day seriously, describing it as a time for “sober reflections” and urging her to evaluate life by identifying what to “copy, paste, and delete.” He also touched on a recurring issue between them — his constant absence due to work — and explained that his frequent travels are a result of his continued demand as a successful actor.
“My dear daughter, Uloaku, congratulations on your 25th birthday. From little Valerie to a prospective Madam Uloaku,” he wrote. “Your issue with me has always been ‘you are always travelling, hardly at home.’ Uloaku, good actors travel because they are always hired. Thank God I am still very active and relevant. Try and tolerate me.”
In a light-hearted but pointed conclusion, Kanayo gave his daughter a three-year deadline to hit one of three major life milestones: get married, pursue a PhD, or move out of his house.
“In all these, please ensure that before 2027, you are either walking down the aisle, going for your PhD, or walking out of my house. Simpliciter,” he said.
