My wife and I are expecting our first child, so currently I’m saving up money before the baby comes, we are also trying to get baby things of almost 400k.
But she wants me to buy Christmas rice for her mom. I’ve already decided that I’m not buying anything for anyone this December, including my own mom. But she wants me to buy for her mom which I refused becauze my baby is more important.
Mind you, she has elder ones who can’t even get anything for their mom this December (she’s the youngest). I just lied to her that I’m broke and I don’t have any money. But I have close to 1.7 million which I want I to save for the baby and also get a car for when the baby comes.
I’m I making the right decision by ignoring everyone this December or should I take like 100k and just buy a bag of rice and share to the mom.
Personally I don’t want to spend a dime on anyone because my child is the most important thing right now.
Please Advice Me.
