Good morning IgbereTV,
Hi guys. I usually don’t bring relationship issues online, but this one is very serious as it concerns the man I am engaged to and scheduled to marry before the end of the year.
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I have known him for a year and few months and we are in love. When we started having $3x, it was all vanilla and although he was a bit rough; as in throwing me around and putting me in different positions, I was okay with it, and honestly, it was kinda exciting because some of those styles were new to me
However recently things have gotten really weird whenever we are having $3x. He requests me to do certain stuff that honestly creeps me out. Sometimes he would tie my hands behind my back so tight and stuff the pillowcase in my mouth, then have his way with me. Sometimes he would blindfold me with my scarf and ask me to beg him to free me, while choking me with his two hands. There was even a time he got a knife and pretended to want to st@b me and asked me to play along and act scared. Sometimes he would ask me to forge tears so he would watch me cry while we had $3x.
It’s gotten real bad that a week ago, I almost passed out when he was doing one of his weird choking $3x-plays. In the past I have talked to him about how I didn’t enjoy some of these things and how we should do it sparingly or not at all. He sounded like he understood, but after a few weeks he seemed bored and uninterested in normal $3x, and begged me to go back to the rough stuff because that’s the only thing he likes.
I know he loves me because he takes good care of me and is even friendly with my parents and siblings. But this extreme $3x thing is really making me uncomfortable.
I can’t imagine going through this sort of $3x every day when we eventually get married and live under the same roof.
I need serious advice on the next steps to take.🙏😭
