I have often argued that people do not cheat because their spouses are not good enough…
So when people say “oh, it is because you are not beautiful or handsome enough,” save yourself that headache. Most times, it has absolutely nothing to do with you.
According to her bio in circulation, Brenda, the wife of Michael Ataga, works as the National Project Coordinator of the LPG Gas Expansion Programme, in the office of the Minister of State for Petroleum Resources, Timipre Sylva.
She had previously served as the Special Adviser on Downstream and Infrastructure between 2015 and 2019 to another Minister of State, Emmanuel Kachikwu.
She is a Mid/Downstream Commercial Strategist and a 2018 Nominee of the prestigious Arch Bishop Desmond Tutu Fellowship.
She has over 15 years of experience in the Oil and Gas industry.
Brenda founded the NGO – True Foundation – which focuses on community and human capacity training for Women and Youths.
She holds a Bachelor of Arts in Public Administration from the University of Lagos, BA Business Management from Lincoln University and an LLM from the University of Salford.
Before joining public service, Brenda held key leadership positions in private sector, where she attained recognition as the first female and first under 30 to serve in the capacity of Supply Manager at OANDO PLC (West Africa).
By all standard, you cannot compare Brenda to her husband’s mistress, Chindinma Ojukwu.
Not by beauty, educational standard, achievements, exposure nor societal pedigree but alas the husband kept Chidinma as a mistress even a night before the celebration of his 50th birthday.
So, for me, it is most times not about you.
Not entirely saying your attitudes cannot encourage it…
But last last, na Who want cheat go cheat!
WHAT’S YOUR TAKE????