The worsening state Nigeria Economy is said to have been a contributing factor to failure of marriages and relationships among young singles today.
Miss. Lara Godwin a 29 years old Edo Lady opened up on a social media group handle on “why men do not want to marry these days”
Sharing her opinion on a group social platform of “singles and married” while young ladies accused young single men of lack of sincerity in relationship and not being ready and willing to settle down with a single lady.
Single ladies alleged that single men go about decieving ladies ,take advantage of them and let them in relationship disappointment.
Looking at the increase rate of marriage failure and ladies of single motherhood , Lara Godwin , cleared the air stating that , the worsening economy condition of Nigeria makes It difficult for men to get married this days . She stated that , systematically, Saturdays have been known to be for weddings in Nigeria but ,such occasions are drastically reduced . She uphold that , there are still single men who really want to settle with their chosen ladies,but are finacially hindered by Economy condition of Nigeria.
Lara Godwin faulted ladies who made it seems like a culture or law that only the man must be responsible for the cost of marriage ceremony process. She stated that the only responsibility that should be solely shouldered by the man is the (Bride price),both traditional wedding ceremony or any other one,ought to be the financial responsibility of the man and lady intending to get married Lara stated
“Nigerian Ladies failure in marriage begins from here ,where they feel that , every cost running the family or building a relationship is that of the man .
Miss.Blessing Nkankuk,an Akwa-Ibom state young lady tacked Lara stating that , the young men who do not have the financial strength lack sincerely in relationship and are without intergrity.She accused Nigerian single men of only chasing ladies for the purpose of “knack and run ” she added that once the get it from the lady, they would start misbehaving in the relationship just to frostrate the lady and abandon her. She affirmed that men are responsible for why we have singles mother in high numbers in the society.
“Even when the goverment of Nigeria was still fair , we have been having devoice marriages and failed relationship .
Lara , called her fellow ladies to begin alignment of their life as married ones to be from age 18 through 25 which she recommended as the right age for a lady to get married . In her opinion, after age 25, it’s now a late marriage she said .
Other participants in the group mostly ladies , argue that , it’s when a willing and ready to settle down guy comes your way ,that is your time irrespective of the age .
The encouraged ladies to be less worried about age and yet to get their “Mr right”
How justifiable is it that the worsening state of our National Economy and the growing rate of overtly leaves a negative effect on family life and social relationships?
Grassroot Reporter- Cedar Chris .
