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"My V!rgin Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me"

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No bashings. 
No religious sentiments. 
Mature Comments Please.

I have a girlfriend who I love so much. It’s been more than a year now… We’ve had the ups and downs which makes every relationship peculiar in it’s own way. Everything I do, is been done out of love. Not because I want to have sex with her. I have shown her, I am not with her because of $3x. If it were that, I’d have left… And then she can say all men are the same. For her, I have done what I haven’t done for my mom or sister, not even a third(I’m sorta ashamed even adding this, but it is what it is). 

From a Reader:

No bashings.
No religious sentiments.
Mature Comments Please.

I have a girlfriend who I love so much. It’s been more than a year now… We’ve had the ups and downs which makes every relationship peculiar in it’s own way. Everything I do, is been done out of love. Not because I want to have sex with her. I have shown her, I am not with her because of $3x. If it were that, I’d have left… And then she can say all men are the same. For her, I have done what I haven’t done for my mom or sister, not even a third(I’m sorta ashamed even adding this, but it is what it is).

The issue is this, I want to make sure she is totally mine. But whenever I mention $3x, she’d tell me not to think about that, that it isn’t within her capacity, blah blah blah. Yet, she claims to love me… Frustratingly annoying. I find it difficult to cheat on her; my conscience is overly active I guess.

At other times, my sexual energy towards her just wanes… Because it’s more or less futile. I just force myself to kiss and make out with her to keep the relationship going.

On the flip side, I have a friend, a lady who wants me to date her, extremely rich girl… Even tells me to accompany her to the UK, France sometimes, I just wave it off. She calls me to tell me she loves me(which I laugh off), takes initiative, gets me things I don’t even need and a lot more. I am not the materialistic freak. I can’t double date and I can’t get down with some other person and act as though all is well. I just don’t tick that way.

We make out and all of that, but at the mention of $3x, she becomes moody, telling me it’s not honorable.

What’s your proffered solution?

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Emeh James Anyalekwa, is a Seasoned Journalist, scriptwriter, Movie producer/Director and Showbiz consultant. He is the founder and CEO of the multi Media conglomerate, CANDY VILLE, specializing in Entertainment, Events, Prints and Productions. He is currently a Special Assistant (Media) to the Former Governor of Abia State and Chairman Slok Group, Dr. Orji Uzor Kalu. Anyalekwa is also the National President, Online Media Practitioners Association of Nigeria (OMPAN) https://web.facebook.com/emehjames

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